In Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts, her wonderful book about vulnerability as the key to influential leadership, Brené Brown proclaims a simple and powerful truth, “Clarity is kind.” And on the other side of the same coin, “A lack of clarity is unkind.”
In other words, being vague can create all kinds of pain, especially when we are vague about the expectations we have of other people.
I believe clarity counts for a lot in the arena of preaching as well. Every congregation needs to hear a clear word of truth and a clear call to action, both personal and corporate. It’s the right and fair thing to do.
Preaching with clarity will inevitably have two effects. On the one hand, our clarity will call people to commitment, and people are hard-wired by their Creator to respond to bold, courageous leadership. And on the other hand, our clarity will also push some people away. It will repel those who cannot come to terms of agreement with what we’ve proclaimed.
In our culture (particularly in my American context), pastors are often reminded by well-meaning people to preach in neutral. To play the middle. To be generic enough in the message to avoid offensive topics. To offend no one.
However, preaching a generic message in a neutral voice is a practice rooted in privilege. It’s possible only for those who already live under conditions that are personally favorable, and who have an innate desire to avoid disturbing the status quo.
In other words, we usually try not to challenge any cultural reality that ultimately benefits us or our peers, especially when those peers are attendees, givers, and volunteers who provide us with a sense of significance and security.
It hurts to lose friends, and when you shift out of neutral and begin to move in some new direction, you will inevitably leave people behind. But if you’re going to preach in the tradition of Jesus Christ, the Great Shepherd, you’re going to have to commit to clarity.
Using your voice to come alongside the marginalized will cost you. Choosing sides on important issues will cost you. Clarity will cost you. Boldness will cost you.
But clarity is ultimately kind.
Chances are, if you’re a preacher reading this blog, clarity has already cost you, hasn’t it? You’re not alone. You’re not the only one suffering loss. The only preachers I know who aren’t hurting are those who are sticking to the script. If you’ve been bold enough to go off script, stay on track.
You’re going to get it wrong sometimes. You’re occasionally going to choose the wrong side. You’re going to step on the wrong toes. Your pride will sometimes take over and replace compassion with arrogance. And when that happens, be willing to be humbled, to learn, and to rest in the grace of God.
But don’t let rejection or the threat thereof drive you into silence or passivity. The world has big problems. Jesus came with bigger answers. And he has called you to be part of the solution – to do justice, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God who will always have your back as long as you’re speaking faithfully to his truth and in his voice of love and compassion.
The world needs clarity – especially concerning the good news of the saving King Jesus.
This is no time to preach in neutral.
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