The Reflectionary – While We Are Waiting, Love People

by | Dec 9, 2022 | The Reflectionary

We’re often so busy looking forward to the next thing, we forget to look around at the people alongside us on the journey.

I’m writing this in the middle of Advent, a season in which millions of Christians around the globe commemorate the first coming of Jesus. But Advent isn’t the celebration of Jesus’ birth. It’s all about the period of time leading up to his birth in which the world – the nation of Israel, in particular – awaited the coming of a Savior and Redeemer who would finally fix all the messes we’ve made.

Waiting makes us grumpy, doesn’t it? Waiting in line, waiting for our meal, waiting in a waiting room… explicitly designed for waiting.

Being grumpy may seem tame, but we can go much further when it comes to the big things in life. We can grumble and complain, store up resentment, become bitter, despair, and give up hope when the waiting seems endless.

THAT’s the subject of both a blog post I wrote today called In Seasons of Waiting, Learn to Love People, and the featured message idea this week (see below).

Just remember, during this hectic holiday season, that every time you have to wait for something, it’s an opportunity to become a little more like Jesus by showing compassion and focusing on the needs of others.

Keep on growing!



This Week’s Big Sermon Idea

While We Are Waiting, Love People

Based on James 5:7-10

Just as Israel once waited for their Messiah to come and deliver them, we who believe Jesus is that Messiah now wait for God to finish his work of redeeming and renewing all things. And while we wait, our biggest assignment is to learn how to live with people, because we’ll be doing so for eternity.

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Creative Sermon Series Ideas from MinistryPass

My favorite resource for sermon series and message ideas, complete series graphics, and video bumpers (but NOT full notes) to get you started is MinistryPass! Each week, I’ll feature a series I would recommend checking out for the upcoming season of the church year. This week:

From the Description:

How can the church resist the temptation to become like the world? By creating a culture of goodness and love. This four-week series focuses on Scripture passages that illustrate how to be loving and good toward others.

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