The Reflectionary – Choosing the Good Life

by | Feb 9, 2023 | The Reflectionary

You’ve probably heard that the only two constants in life are death and taxes, right?

My wife, Angie, once wisely corrected this in a pretty profound way and replied, “Actually, the only two constants in life are death and choices. You can always choose not to pay your taxes and go to jail.”

Death and choices. That’s life!

One of the readings from this coming weekend’s Lectionary texts is Deuteronomy 30:15-20, and it’s all about making choices. Preaching to people in my modern American context brings a special challenge in this regard because we’re pretty obsessed with making the one right choice in any given scenario because, of course, all the other choices are bad and wrong and destructive, right?

But here’s the truth: When you know who you are supposed to be becoming, what you should do next gets easier to figure out.

Today, you are making choices along a trajectory. It could be that you’ve made some missteps and find yourself having to make hard choices to steer back toward your destiny. I promise you you’re not alone and I can guarantee you that the best time to start making different choices is now.

I know that I’m supposed to become someone who is wise, mature, strong, and compassionate. Therefore I need to make choices that move me toward that goal, even when those choices are less convenient than the alternatives. Even when those choices lead me through testing. And part of the craft of preaching involves helping people to accept that sometimes the harder choice is the wiser one.

Between birth and death lies an ongoing string of choices, and you’ll know what to do when you know who it is you are supposed to become.

In the meantime,

Keep on growing!


PS –  I highly recommend Andy Stanley’s book, The Principle of the Path, to see how Andy communicates this principle masterfully to a modern audience.


This Week’s Big Sermon Idea


Choosing the Good Life

A sermon idea based on Deuteronomy 30:15-20.

Life is a long series of choices, each affecting the next, moving our lives in the direction of either flourishing or faltering. God invites us to choose the path of life. Begin to pray today that your heart’s desires would be shaped to align with God’s life-giving desires for you and for those around you.

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